Inclusion is often discussed in the context of workplaces, schools, and communities. However, inclusion is equally important for the family unit, even though the dynamics are different from peer-based groups. Families can prioritize inclusion to ensure that each member feels valued, respected, and heard, regardless of their age or role.
A family may not be a peer group, but that doesn’t diminish the need for inclusive practices. Within the family, there are varied voices—parents, children, grandparents, extended family, chosen family, and everyone who plays a role in the family unit—each with unique perspectives. It's easy for decisions to be made by those who hold more authority, such as parents or elders, but fostering a culture of inclusion means creating space for every family member to participate in conversations, express their thoughts, and contribute to decisions that impact them.
Personally, my family had "family talks" where we would all share how we felt about life topics and what would we would like things to be different in the home environment.
Inclusion in the family is particularly important when it comes to decision-making that affects everyone. When children or younger members are involved, it’s not just about giving them a voice but about teaching them the value of respect, empathy, and collaboration. Even when children are not making the final decision, their input should be valued and acknowledged, as it helps them feel a sense of belonging and empowerment. Very much like lion cubs play hunting, giving young ones opportunities to practice these skills will benefit them in the future.
Adults also benefit from practicing inclusion within the family. By encouraging open communication, adults can gain fresh insights from younger members who often see the world differently. This not only strengthens the family bond but also fosters a supportive environment where everyone feels safe to share their thoughts and ideas.
In my case, I asked my parents to have pizza for dinner more often. It might seem trivial but it gave me a chance to voice my wants and learn how to influence my environment in a respectful constructive way.
Practicing inclusion in the family creates a model that children can carry with them into their relationships outside the home. They learn that their voice matters and that, regardless of hierarchy, everyone deserves to be heard. Ultimately, families that practice inclusion build stronger connections, where trust, respect, and understanding flourish.
Promoting inclusion within the family unit isn’t just about making decisions together; it’s about nurturing an environment where each member, regardless of age or status, feels like a valued and essential part of the family. Just as in the wider world, when we practice inclusion at home, we cultivate a sense of belonging that extends to every aspect of our lives.
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